This is one of my favorite photos of my brother and I. We stand together, as we were a unified front for all of my childhood. I don’t remember a time when it was just me. It’s always been Mark and Michelle, Michelle and Mark. And aren’t we cute? Here we are standing outside of Aunt Alice’s house, with I think Lynne Haren in the background. Barns to me have always been landmarks that I look for. They could tell me where I was or if I was close to my grandma’s house. Aunt Alice’s barns were a grouping that was familiar to me and seeing them we would know instantly that we were finally there.
Each summer, the Kramer family reunion has brought everyone back together. We all know that the last Sunday in June, there were plans. Plans to get together and celebrate being a family. I wasn’t alive yet when the first celebration took place, to celebrate Aunt Alice’s birthday. To me, it just always was. If we were near Cullom, Illinois, on the last Sunday in June, we were at the Kramer Reunion. For many years, we were not close as we were in Kansas or Ohio. But on those years that we could get there, it was a treat indeed.

This is a sight that I was also very familiar with. My dad and uncle grouped with their cousins, sharing the easy conversation that only comes with relatives who’ve known one another their whole lives. Leaning against a car that matches his shirt, we have Galen Haren, holding me is my uncle Wayne Miller, with cousin Bob Fager next to Wayne and my dad Raymond Miller. One the end is Bob’s brother Milton Fager holding a child I couldn’t tell who they were. The photos were developed in March of 1971, so that meant that these photos were taken in June of 1970. All of the men were sporting their Sunday summer best for this day.

Together, these photos remind me of the day we gathered to honor Aunt Alice and the Kramer siblings — a day when every branch of the family came together as one, celebrating the bonds that have always held the Kramer family close. And today, as those able to travel arrive in Cullom, Illinois to celebrate them once more, may those who cannot be there still feel connected to our Kramer kin and to all the times we stood together at this family celebration that has always felt deeper, richer, and more meaningful than an ordinary reunion.



